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Conversations about Gender Representation in Films and the Bechdel Test

April 3, 2018 by ashwini 23 Comments

 

I need to start this post with an apology to the third gender. This post shall focus on how women are under-represented in Hindi Films in India. The category of people that associate neither with the male or the female genders are also largely ignored by mainstream cinema even though they represent a decent section of the population. Unfortunately when stories have tracks for the third gender or the LGBTQ community in their stories, they are usually incorporated for comic relief.  Please go through the earlier hyperlinks to read about studies that analyse the under-representation of the third gender in our films.
Now there are every few households that don’t have any women in them. Our villages, towns and cities are filled with women. And yet our films don’t seem to reflect this too well.
Cinema in India enjoys a lot of love and has a very wide audience. This gives a lot of power to the filmmakers. But do they put their power to good use? Not really.
Last year, IBM and two New Delhi-based institutions released a public study of over 4,000 Hindi films to understand the extent of gender bias in the industry.
Here is a summary of the study findings (all graphs and images are snapshots from the report that you can read here):
1) Cast mentions in the Movie Plot: Right from 1970 to 2017, the data indicates that the male character has double the number of mentions as compared to a female character.
 Female mentions are present in Pink and Male mentions in Blue


 2) Cast Appearance in a Movie Plot: The adjectives most associated with males are: rich and wealthy while the verbs associated with them are kills and shoots. On the other hand, women characters are often described as beautiful and attractive while the verbs associated with them are marries and loves.
Adjectives for characters

3) Cast Introductions in a Movie Plot: Male characters are usually introduced by referencing their professions e.g. famous singer, an honest police officer, a successful scientist etc. while a woman character is invariably introduced in relation to a male character

 

 4) Occupation as a Stereotype: Women characters tend to have lower level occupations e.g. teacher or student while the male character tends to have higher level occupations such as lawyer or doctor.

 

Occupations for men

 

Occupations for Women
5) Cast Dialogues and Gender Gap in Movie Scripts: On studying the ratio of male to female dialogues in 13 scripts, it was found that Raman Raghav was the least biased while Kaminey and Aligarh showed the most bias.
Female dialogues are presented on X-axis and Male dialogues on Y-axis
6) Movie Poster and Plot mentions: Publicizing a movie is biased towards a female on advertising material like posters, and they end up having an even smaller or inconsequential role in the movie. 50% of movie posters had female representation but 80% of the movies had more male mentions than female. Notably, 3 movies – GangaaJal 2 , Platform 3 , Raees 4 had almost 100+ male mentions in the plot but no female mentions whereas in all 3 posters females were prominently present on posters.
                 Source- Pixabay
 
7) Movie Trailers: The screen time for women characters in movie trailers has consistently been half that of men for over a decade!
8)  Female Centricity: The good news is that the female centric movies and female mentions in our movies are on a rise.
9) Singers and gender distribution in soundtracks: Since the female actors have a lesser role to play, so do their voices. Right from 2010 to 2017, the female singers have sung consistently less songs as compared to their male counterparts. The duration of the song sung by the female singer has not been considered here but it is more likely to be lopsided. This fact was also corroborated in a recent interview with the top female singers in the country.

Sexism not covered by the study above

Other than the garden variety of sexism that persists worldwide,women are further objectified through ‘Item Numbers’ in our Hindi Films. The term itself is offensive. Kangana Ranaut depicts the widely prevalent sexism in a viral video in collaboration with AIB, a popular Indian comedy sketch group. You can read the on-point lyrics of this parody item number– ‘The Bollywood Diva Song’ here.
And of course we know this – the top male ‘superstars’ of our country are all 50 years old and prefer to pair with actresses half their age! Most of our 300 crore films fail the ‘Jane Test’ for this reason (read about the Test later in the post)! Fortunately the trend of female actors who vanish from the screen on getting married is changing today.

 

The report concludes by suggesting that the primary steps one can take to narrow the gap of gender bias in Hindi Films is by:

 
a)  Removing Occupation Hierarchy –Moving away from stereotypical occupations
b)  Removing Gender Bias from plots – Ask important questions like, ‘If one interchanges 
all  males and females, is the plot/story still possible or plausible?’
This brings us to the second part of my post…

THE RELEVANCE OF THE BECHDEL TEST

First let us understand…
What is the Bechdel test?
The Bechdel Test is a measure of gender inequality, particularly in films but it is also being used as a tool for Feminism in plays and short stories as well.
It was created by American cartoonist, Alison Bechdel in her 1985 comic, “Dykes to Watch Out For”. It is also known as the Bechdel-Wallace test.
 
To pass the test, the story has to have at least two unnamed or named female characters who talk to each other about something other than a man.
Women’s Web, a forum for women requires contributors to submit short stories that pass the Bechdel Test for its Monthly Muse contest. The measure is used widely across the globe.
 
But is the Bechdel Test the ideal measure of gender bias in stories? I don’t think so.
Many people across the world including the creator of the test, Alison Bechdel acknowledge that the test isn’t perfect and may not always work. It definitely highlights the problem but its simplicity can be its undoing. Let us break the test down to highlight its failings:
                 a)            Two women must speak to one another
In a recently released short film produced by Anurag Kashyap and Shlok Sharma, the viewer takes the same emotional journey as the characters in the film take after a very traumatic event. There were no dialogues and yet the film makes you empathize with a woman’s anguish.
               b)            The two women must talk to each other about something other than a man.
There are various scenarios where two women could talk about a man and yet have a feminist flavour.  One important scenario could be conversations about abuse. A woman pushing her friend/ colleague/ daughter to stand up for her rights cannot take place without mentioning the man! Such empowering conversations will fail the Bechdel test!         
The film Gravity does not pass the Bechdel Test even though it revolves around a woman astronaut who survives in space owing to her intelligence and grit.  Read here on how even though most of the highest grossing films in Hollywood passed the Bechdel Test, the issue of gender bias remains largely unsolved.
 
If not the Bechdel Test, then what?
The Bechdel Test may still be the most popular measure but there are other tests that could be used to supplement it to get a clearer picture of gender biasedness in films.
1)  The JaneTest:
Script-reader Ross Putman highlighted the sexism that prevails in Hollywood by sharing the character descriptions for the female lead from actual scripts in a feed on Twitter using the handle @femscriptintros. It was found that most of the descriptions only focussed on how the character looked. He replaced all the names with ‘Jane’ which is why it is called the Jane Test. According to Ross 3 questions must be asked by writers before crafting the female lead:
                a.            Does the introduction focus on the external attributes of the character?
                b.            Is he a twenty- or thirty something?
                c.            Is she dating someone decades older than her?
If your answer is ‘Yes’ to all the questions above, then the script fails the Jane Test.
2)  Samantha Ellis, a feminist playwright in Hollywood, devised the ‘Sphinx Test’ that also involved asking a series of questions for playwrights to consider while creating a female character:
                a            Is there a woman centre stage?
                b.           Is she active rather than reactive?
                c.           Is she compelling and complex?
3)  Read here to know 12 tests that checks gender bias across 4 main aspects of movie-making:
               a.            Behind the Camera
               b.            Intersectional
               c.            Protagonists
               d.            Supporting Cast

These tests emerged when FiveThirtyEight (a website that focuses on opinion poll analysis, politics, economics, and sports blogging) asked 13 people in the entertainment industry to come up with personal standards for representation in cinema.

Gender Inequality behind the scenes

The study on Hindi Films doesn’t touch upon the lack of women film makers (directors, producers, editors, camerawomen etc.) in the industry. According to this article in 2016, there were only around 60 women working behind the scenes in big ticket movies. Here is a quote from a cinematographer who happens to be a woman explaining the reason–
”The opportunities are fewer because you are judged already right at the beginning on the basis of gender. I don’t understand what a ‘physical film’ means. I don’t understand why a man can shoot this and I can’t.”
 
This was in response to a comment by a reviewer who was surprised that the cinematographer was a woman. Also do read Shit People Say To Women Directors and other Women in Film.
No money for Feminism
When a movie like ‘Masaan’ is made, portraying a strong and independent girl from the small-town of Benares, I am sure it inspires women everywhere. Of course we know the love that ‘Queen’ or even the ‘Tanu weds Manu’ films have received from the audience. But I don’t think the makers set out to make ‘feminist’ films. They wrote stories that they themselves believed in. Richa Chaddha praises the makers of Masaan in a recent interview: ‘Neeraj Ghaywan and Varun Grover are possibly the most progressive (and) intelligent men I know who are so non-judgemental, understanding and humane…’ Neeraj Ghaywan followed Masaan with an amazing short film ‘Juice’ starring Shefali Shah that focussed on the sexism and patriarchy that still pervades our Indian homes. There are several other short films that aim to highlight the sexism that exists in India.
You may argue that the above films and short films are all made on relatively low budgets. Without the financial risks that a big-budget movie faces, these inspirational stories can afford to lend themselves to feminist ideals. True. But there is a glimmer of hope. I think that the reason why you saw the improving trends in female centric movies recently in the study earlier is because data suggests that half of the movie-goers are women today! This was not the case in the 80’s or 90’s where the movies catered primarily to men. As the women audience members watch more women centric films they will drive the demand upwards for such films. The consistent success of these films will make film-makers less wary of creating such films.
At the end of the day, no matter how many tests, questions and studies we subject our movies to, the fact is that writers want to share stories about the world around them. And unfortunately as long as sexism prevails in India, you can’t blame cinema or stories for mirroring the reality. Let’s try and make our women feel more as equals. Then our stories will also reflect it.
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Blue Blooded Women who Whisper

April 1, 2018 by ashwini 19 Comments

This post explores the taboos around menstruation that the feminist in me abhors.
I was clueless

I still remember the first time I saw a Sanitary Napkin ad on TV. I was in my fifth standard. It was before my I knew what periods were. Seeing blue ink fall from a beaker on a white piece of sponge, I wondered when I would get one – to soak up all the ink from my leaky fountain pen! I thought a sanitary napkin would be a nice stationery item! Another time, I visited my friend’s home. While we watched TV, I noticed her brothers giggle and nudge one another when one of the sanitary napkin ads came on. What was so funny about an ad on something so useful I thought? Of course I never bothered asking anyone for clarifications.
I knew I had to hide it from men
When I was finally schooled by my mom on the monthly activity I remember she asked my father to leave the room while she spoke to me. She did explain to me the technicalities quite well and led me through the journey. But I associated periods with something private and secretive. It was a woman’s thing and not to be shared with men.
A red stain was a blot on our existence! If any of my friends had an unfortunate incident and left a stain on her white sports skirt, everyone rushed to hide it. The boys must not get to know anything!  well-meaning friend would nudge you and raise the ‘red flag’ and at once a handy sweater would be tied around your hips!
Later when I got older and started buying my sanitary napkins myself, I noticed that the guy behind the counter packed it in newspaper and placed it in a black plastic bag before handing it to me. Again I never questioned any of this.
Wish I had been a sport about it
I was an athlete in school and was very active. So I had to be extra careful. An incident on the field would mean the ‘run of shame’ to the washrooms in front of everyone. I dreaded that more than coming second in a race… and I rarely came second! In hindsight I wish someone had told me and my friends that menstruation was natural. I wish I had the courage to go up to my male sports teacher and say, “Sir, I am on my period. I think I have had a small incident because my flow is quite heavy today and I have stained my skirt. I need to go to the washroom. I shall be back soon. Please excuse me.” If only I could have unashamedly run without a sweater around me and go unescorted to the washroom (I think most women make best friends only so they always have someone to run with them during their run of shame!), calmly clean the stain/ wear my spare uniform, drink some water and come back.
Thank god some sense prevailed
I’ve heard of stories of friends taking hormone pills to postpone or pre-pone their periods so that they can go for a trek without the inconvenience, only to have messed up their cycles for life! Oh and these pills are available over the counter! That is how careless and misinformed we are about our bodies! I’m glad I never resorted to such quick-fix solutions.
I shall be forever thankful to my mom for never treating me as an untouchable with several restrictions. I never had a separate set of utensils. I never had to stay in my room. I could go to the kitchen as many times I liked (to raid the refrigerator…never cooked) and I could eat anything I liked…even pickle! Granted, that not allowing the woman of the house in the kitchen while she is on her period, could have been because the rest of the family wanted her to rest in olden times. If someone feels tired and doesn’t wish to work it’s okay. But when I see my friend eating from a special plate in her room while her family eats together in the dining room, it saddens me. They’ve seen it happen to all the women in the family and that’s why you won’t even get a whisper from them on the issue!
No more Whispers
When I came across this Whisper ad in the theatre one day – ‘Break the silence on periods’, I remember thinking that this should feel awesome…somebody was voicing my exact feelings as a teenager. But it didn’t evoke a positive emotion from me. Something felt amiss. It took me a while to realise that it was the word ‘Whisper’. ‘A whisper set me free’ says one of the lines. And that was what ticked me off sub-consciously.
That’s when I realized that one of the biggest sanitary napkin brands in India, one that I have always used, propagates the taboo surrounding periods. A brand that has made several ads to showcase it as a friend of the empowered woman, (the ‘Touch the Pickle’ one being lauded widely), loses the battle because of its very name! Granted they came up with the name a while back, when period talk consisted of whispers. But today, I am not the same Ashwini as I was. Today, I do not want to keep quiet or whisper about menstruation. I definitely don’t want the younger generation of women to begin to whisper about the issue.  I don’t want them to treat the most natural thing in the whole world as if it were unmentionable. I want all of us to proudly carry the pack of sanitary napkins in our hand without any packing! I don’t want any of us to point at the product at the chemist. I want us to be able to call out the name of the product loudly.  But if the name of the product itself is ‘Whisper’, it defeats the purpose! And I am glad I am not alone in thinking this way. A petition on Change.org has been started by Shreya Gupta of Bengaluru asking the brand to change its name. They have also posted a video on their thoughts.

No more blue blood

We are not aliens to have blue blood running through us! We don’t need it! With normal red coloured blood, we are still able to create life. And when we don’t conceive, the blood is shed. It’s time that the marketing teams of the sanitary napkin products stop just pretending to be feminists and really embrace the issue. If not rebrand themselves, Whisper should at least show red liquid depicting blood on a sanitary napkin like a brand ‘Bodyform’ did in the UK did recently. It will definitely get Whisper a lot of publicity but also give them an opportunity to right some wrongs. And to all those men who will feel uncomfortable while watching a red liquid fall on the sanitary napkin, I have this to say – women feel just as uncomfortable when we see you touch and feel your crotch area in public. At least the ad shall be about something that is natural!
Why it is important to ROAR: WE BLEED RED
It’s time that the world knew that we are not blue-blooded women who whisper about menstruation!
Ok…so we have had a movie on menstruation. We have had celebrities holding a sanitary napkin in their heads and posting it on social media. But when is the government going to subsidize sanitary napkins? When are we women going to come across and talk about emotions that come with the flow…pun intended? 
I came across this article on how music artists in the West have expressed their emotions while they undergo their period in a very vivid and direct manner through songs. In India the closest we got is with this song parody by Girlyappa. I did read about a song titled ‘Come and Let’s Raise the Voice on Menstruation Taboo’ penned by social activist and lyricist Gowri Vandana but I am yet to hear it. Will we ever have a mainstream singer… say a Neha Bhasin come up with a realistic song that all women can listen to and hum that time of the month?
Why it is important to change men’s perceptions on periods
Most women have at one time or the other wished they were a man and didn’t have to go through the monthly hassles! Do read this brilliant article on how different the scenario would be if men were to menstruate. 

The unfortunate truth is that most men have a lot of misconceptions about periods. Don’t believe me? Watch this funny video. And it is our fault. We need to speak to our husbands, brothers and sons and sensitize them. 

Pravin Nikam is another ‘Padman’. This 24 year old social activist imparts training to women on menstrual hygiene through his NGO, Roshni. In his TEDx Talk on ‘Men need to talk about menstruation’, he speaks of the need to educate the society about periods.
Menstrupedia is a comic strip that was the brain child of Aditi Gupta. Also available in Hindi now, it was a pioneer in spreading awareness about menstruation.
Sometimes I wonder if an Indian woman will have to resort to something more creative and in-your-face for people to pay close attention!
You have to talk. Period.

A few years back, I was going through a particularly difficult phase during my periods. The pain would get so bad that I would invariably take at least 1-2 days off from work in a month. I brought this up one day at a dinner table discussion and suggested that if Maternity Leave is ok…why not Period Leave? My dad disagreed vehemently. He said that women will never be considered equal if we ask for privileges. I think a lot of women will agree with my dad. But what about the women with conditions such as dysmenorrhea and endometriosis, for whom period pain could be as bad as a heart attack? For them, Period Leave would be a big boon. It may surprise you to know that menstrual leaves have a provision in Bihar government since 1992! I don’t think anyone will grumble if the HR provided additional 5-10 days sick leave to women in a year. We need to continue to have discussions and debates and arrive at a solution for the issue.
Own your Period
Women must openly discuss PMS and other issues they face every month. It’s ok to not be ok on your periods. Everyone is different.
Also don’t smuggle your sanitary napkin to the bathroom. What would happen if they saw that green plastic pouch in your hand? Nothing!
Don’t shy away from telling people you are on your period. Don’t call it chums, aunt flo, that-time-of-the-month etc. I think women and mothers particularly need to treat it as normal as possible so that the next generation is more empowered. Boys and men should also be taught not to treat menstruation as a taboo.
My last words on this…
Periods are not embarrassing. They are empowering.
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Abort the Growing Sexism in You because Evolution Demands it

April 1, 2018 by ashwini 25 Comments
 

 

 

Meet Ramesh. As a child he grew up in a patriarchal society. He was told he could do what he wanted. He had choice and freedom. These privileges made him powerful. And he was never told that with great power comes great responsibility. So Ramesh would go around singing ‘Mere baal bhi sexist, meri chaal bhi sexist, meri shirt bhi sexist, mere pant bhi sexist…’ His mom and sister would have to run around to fulfil all his wishes. Now a pretty girl comes into his life. She is so pretty that Ramesh forgets his purpose in life – to get his way – and follows her around. Having successfully broken his saadhana, Menaka tells him, ‘Abort the sexism. Only then will I, the empowered one, go out for milk shake with you. Lust-filled Ramesh decided to kill his sexist avatar, took a ‘chill pyala‘ and they lived happily ever after.
 
If after hearing this story your question is…why is the guy aborting anything…it is ‘women’s dept.’…sorry Ramesh you are sexist! 
 
My question is ‘Aisa real life mein kyun nahin hota?’
 
Can the Menaka’s of the world break the Sexism saadhanas of the Ramesh’s of the world? For what is a saadhana….a means to an end… and so is the as-long-as-I-get-my-way-let-things-go-along-the-way-it-is attitude.
 
Sexism is all around us. It could be everyday sexism at home – ‘No I don’t want to make the bed and fold the bed sheets. You’re better at it’ or at work when you are asked to ‘take care of the guests’ only by virtue of being a woman irrespective of your seniority in the organization.  Unfortunately Aashima did do as asked by her boss but most would. And the fact is they shouldn’t! Such inherent sexism should be nipped in the bud. It has been my experience that men usually don’t the patience to listen to what a woman has to say. Of course overlooking a woman for a promotion in spite of her performance and the pay gap are larger issues with larger consequences. All these issues arise from individuals who subscribe to misogyny and believe in patriarchy.
 
While sexism is pervasive, not all men are sexists. For sure. I won’t stereotype men because I know how it feels to hear stories stereotyping us that begin with ‘Women are…’ To all the Feminist men out there… a big ‘Jaadu ki Jhappi’.  
 
The rest of you need to wake up and smell the coffee. Yes! On weekends, coffee will be the ‘cuppa of choice’ because that’s what the wife likes. Because 5 days of the week she has tea like the rest of the family….lest someone is offended. Ok so nobody told her that no one will be offended by her rebellious beverage choice…but nobody told her she could do what she wanted either! So she just sipped along till she became a Feminist. Must be the coffee cravings but she finally decided that ‘It’s My Life. It’s my Java’. But what about Mr. ‘Chai lover’? Does he become a Feminist by having to gulp down frothy yet kadwa coffee 2 days a week? Is that what a Feminist wife wants- make the husband also suffer for 2 days because he needs to understand what the wife goes through for 5 days? Or would he become a Feminist by encouraging his wife to do what she feels like no matter which day of the week…no matter whatever her choice is?
 
Feminism and Evolution
 
I have been wondering about this for a while now. I have come to believe that without men accepting that gender disparity exists and doing their bit to change rigid gender norms… the world is heading towards definite doom. Haven’t you heard of ‘For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction?’ So in order to ensure that the balance in the world is maintained, we need men to become Feminists. As women evolve and find their true place in society, so will the men need to become ‘woke’. We need the men with the power of privilege that is bestowed upon them by the patriarchal society we live in, to believe and support the cause of equality in the sexes and join the Feminist movement.
 
The more I begin to understand Feminism, the more I wonder how we got here in the right place. If only Eve had stood her ground and not become subservient to Adam! If only she had been more like ‘Eep’ the rebellious teenage daughter of an over-protective father ‘Grug’ and strong-willed yet pleasant mother ‘Ugga’ in the animated movie ‘The Croods’. Set in a fictional pre-historic era, Eep the female protagonist in the movie has a mind of her own and is brave. It is her curiosity essentially that saved her family from apocalypse leading them to the safe land of ‘Tomorrow.’ Along the way, unable to tackle situations with brawn as he had been accustomed to, Grug learnt to use his brain for coming up with innovative solutions. His inspiration was ‘Guy’ the uber cool and smart fella that Eep had befriended. After saving his family in the end, Grug apologises for his past and promises to be more open-minded. With Eep as a role model for women and Grug and Guy as a role models for men, we would not have been here today…we would have been in the heaven that was ‘Tomorrow’.
 
But what would make men want to give up their privileges to become Feminists? Can only large-hearted empathetic men be Feminists in the first place? Do you have to believe in fairness and non-discrimination in general to accept that gender inequality has no place in today’s world? Do you have to have seen your mother be ill-treated to learn to pledge to never behave disrespectfully with women? Or do you have to see your father and uncle and other relatives treat the women in their lives as equal partners? Or would you just do it out of love?
 
What if your wife starts singing…”Ek garam coffee ka pyaala ho. Koi usko pilane waala ho. Chaahe gora ya kaala ho. Feminist jaisa dilwala ho.”? That should be cue for you to make your own cup of tea (learn here) and while you are at it…make a cup of coffee (learn here) for your wife as well.
 
I urge sexist men to reach out to their open-minded self and abort the growing sexism in and around them because evolution demands it. Become a #FeministHero and get ready to jump across the chasm of inequality. Let’s take a leap of faith…together. The heaven of the egalitarian ‘Tomorrow’ await us.

 

 

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Theme Reveal #AtoZChallenge

March 19, 2018 by ashwini 13 Comments

April is going to be all about ‘Woman Power’! 

I am very excited to be a part of the #BlogchatterA2Z Challenge. While I have been writing for a while, churning out 26 blog posts is going to be very challenging! But writing is what I am most passionate about. It’s where I lose and find myself. And that’s why I am going to put up posts on liberation for this liberating challenge! My theme for the #BlogchatterA2Z Challenge is 
A-Z of Feminism

I have always hated being told what to do. I have abhorred and consciously avoid generalizations and the need to put people, particularly women in pigeon holes. (in case I do so unwittingly unwittingly in my posts, I would love my readers to point it out) I know that the men in my life are quite progressive and supportive. And yet, I have experienced the effects of  cultural conditioning and sexism in my own life. Being a part of a women’s forum has spiked my interest in Feminism. My thoughts on the subject are evolving every day.  I don’t know if all my thoughts are unique or obtuse. But I feel that even if my take on Feminism is as plain and obvious as ‘daal chaawal’, I still think that I should put my word out there. If my words can generate discussion or even debates, I believe there will be a ripple effect. In fact as I write these posts, I end up having conversations about Feminism with my husband and friends everyday which I wouldn’t have otherwise. And I enjoy speaking to men about Feminism. No I don’t enjoy seeing them squirm or get uncomfortable, but I always get a different and interesting perspective. I truly believe that we can change the world one conversation at a time.

As I write these posts with pure honesty and am quite invested in my POV. But I would like to put a rider I reserve the right to unashamedly change my opinions as I live and learn. It’s like this… if anyone had to write a post on Steve Smith a day before the ball tampering saga, he/ she would write glowing testimonials of his cricketing prowess. Today the story will be a tainted one.

So do tune in to read personal, insightful and well-researched topics on why we need to do all we can to do away with Gender Inequality. 





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